Sunday, June 7, 2009

June 6-7

This is a picture of some boxes of chili paste, the lady grimacing is how they say how hot it is. When we told people that we were coming to Korea, almost everyone asked us if we liked spicy food, and then told us the we would be eating a lot of spicy food, they weren't kidding. There is a whole aisle in the store dedicate just to chili, you can buy about 27,000 different kids of chili powder, chili paste, chili oil, etc.
Any where ther is flat ground that doesn't have a building on it, there are crops growing. This is a little patch of wheat, or barley that we pass on our way to work. It is about 6 feet wide and 20 feet long, I don't know how they are going to get the combine in there to harvest it.


View from our patio
So when we got to Gunsan we had no idea where the church was located. While we were still in the states, I went to the church's website and searched for churches in the Gunsan area. I found an address, and through Google earth I could look at a picture of the church. I thought that I had solved the problem of finding the church, but when we got here, we found that most people have only a rudimentary knowledge of English (Hi, how are you? What is your name? etc) So knowing the address of the Church in English did not help us out much.
We thought about asking Jennifer were the church was, but we decided that we did not want to tell her that we were "Mormons" until we got to know her better. So on Saturday afternoon we decided that we had to find the church. By that time we had a pretty good idea of what our immediate neighborhood looked like because we had walked around quite a bit. We live in a tall apartment building, and there are three more buildings just like it, all of them right in a row. There is also a huge store called E-Mart right across the street. We have been there several times, and it has just about everything, like Wal-Mart, only better.
So I found the church address again and went to Google earth and found the church again, then I panned out until I found our neighborhood. It took a while, and we weren't quite sure that we were looking at the right place, but we decided to try and find it anyways. We found the church without hardly any trouble; it takes about 35 minutes to walk there. We still have not figured out the bus system yet so we had to walk.
We didn't know what time church started, but I figured that it would start 9am like most wards. We left at 8:15, and got there after 8:45. The church was open, but we could not find anyone inside, so we went exploring, we looked in all of the classrooms, and the bathrooms. We wanted to check the bathrooms because we have found that public restrooms here are the squatting over a hole type, and we hoped that the church's toilets would be better, they were. The Sacrament room is upstairs and we went up there, but it was pretty hot and stuffy, so we decided to wait outside where it was cooler until someone showed up.
It turned out that church started at 10am, but the missionaries showed up at about 9:15, so we talked with them until church started. There is an American, Elder Truhaft, and a Korean, Elder Kang. We found out that there is an English branch on the air force base, and they invited us to go there after the Gunsan ward meetings. We said that we would like to go.
Church was entertaining; we sat on the right side of the room, and it just so happened that that was the side of the room that the women and kids sat on. For some reason the men all sat on the left side of the room, and the women all sat on the right side of the room. During Sacrament some of the kids were getting out of hand. Whichever adult was closest, regardless of whose child it was, would discipline the kid. One little boy kept moving from row to row trying to find somewhere he could misbehave, but on every row someone would try to keep him still. Another boy came to church wearing his Sunday best, and his soccer cleats. I asked the missionaries why, and they said that it is a Korean fad for the young boys to wear their cleats to church.
There were only about 25 members in the ward, and about five of them speak English. We really liked everyone, they were so warm and loving, everyone came up and introduced themselves to us and made us feel right at home.
When we were talking about coming to Korea, one of the things we discussed was the probability of having more missionary opportunities. While we were in church, I felt that the Gunsan ward would be a good place for us to help the church grow. During priesthood on of the brothers asked me if we were coming to church next week, and I said that I didn't know because I figured that Christina would want to go to the English branch. On our way to the base Christina told me that she wanted to go to Gunsan ward, I guess the Relief Society sisters really made her feel welcome. There is on sister who is Christina's age and she speaks English fluently, she spent some time in the US. She teaches English at a private school like us, and has the same teaching schedule, 2pm-9pm. Her name is Sister Oh, and Christina told me that she thinks they will become good friends. I also felt very welcome in priesthood, and made several new friends. We have decided that we want to go to the Korean ward, even though we will not understand much unless we work really hard at learning Korean.
After church we went with the missionaries to the air force base. I really like the Elders here, they are working very hard. While we were waiting for the bus, they stopped nearly every passerby, and on the bus they contacted nearly every person. When we got to the base, we found out that we couldn't go in without our passports, which we did not bring along, so we had to come back home. We are planning on going to church on the base next week, but after that, we will probably just go to the Korean ward.
On Saturday after we found the church we went to the downtown area to look around. While we were there, we found a street vender selling some type of larva. I tried one and it tasted kind of woody, Christina decided she wasn’t hungry. We also found a place that has a bunch of military tanks, planes, and ships that are no longer in use. We got to go on some of them, but they closed the place down before we could see everything. We are planning on going back there as soon as we can.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Seoul, Gunsan and our Apartment

This is our Bathroom. As you can see the shower head is just attached to the sink and
extends up to the wall. We just stand right there in the middle of the bathroom to shower.
Kind of different.
Here's our kitchen.




This was the view outside our blacony on Friday morning. Lots of smog/fog here.


















These were all taken on our bus trip from Seoul to Gunsan. Very pretty area. Love it here.





This is the capital city and where we flew into. The first thing you notice I'm sure is how smoggy it is.














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Finally an update on our South Korea adventure

Here is a letter I wrote my family of our travels and all that has gone on since arriving in Gunsan, South Korea. We really love it here and have already had such a great time. Pictures to follow.

Dear Family

I know Liji e-mailed everyone to let you know that we made it here and that everything is going well. Mom wanted a lot more detailed letter so here it goes. I am mostly writing all this to have for my own journal keeping but figured it would be easier to get the journal and the letter writing over all at once. Our travels went really smoothly. It was really long but we are grateful that we didn’t have any holdups. We headed to the Salt Lake airport at about 7:30 Tuesday morning and when we arrived in Seoul, South Korea it was 11 pm Wednesday night in Korea, which is 8 am Wednesday in Utah. So it took us a full 24 hours to get to the capital here but we still weren’t to our final destination in Gunsan. The longest part of the trip was from Portland to Tokyo; it was a 10 hour flight. I was worried about getting sick on the flight because I get motion sickness really easily. I did really great the whole flight until just before landing in Tokyo. I got really sick and felt like throwing up but they said when landing that quarantine officials would be coming on the flight to check any who have been sick or been around other sick people to quarantine thing because of possible swine flu cases. I was so worried that I would have to go through this huge ordeal if I threw up so I tried as hard as I could to hold it in and was able to. Coming off the plane in Tokyo it was so humid. It was bad for me because I already felt sick and so the humidity just seemed to envelope me and I felt very claustrophobic. I made it to our connecting gate though and then took my shoes and socks off and pulled my pants up to my knees and sprawled out on the seats available. I had broken out in a sweat and did not feel well and didn’t know how I was going to board another plane in just a little while. Luckily I was able to fall asleep for a few minutes and when I woke up I felt much better and was able to do pretty well on the next flight.
A man the school hired met us at the airport in Seoul and he took us to a hotel for that night and said he would come get us the next morning at 7:40 to take us back to the airport where we would catch a bus to Gunsan. As we came out of the airport the first thing I noticed was how smoggy it was here. The air is so polluted you can smell it. It is pretty bad, especially in Seoul, the capital. We were very tired and went right to sleep when we arrived at our hotel. I was thinking that 7:40 would not be very long to sleep but at 4 am Liji and I were both wide awake and weren’t able to go back to sleep because for our bodies it was 1 in the afternoon not the middle of the night. So we just got ready then and watched some Korean TV while we waited to be picked up. The bus ride to Gunsan was about 3 and half hours.
Jennifer, the principle at the school we are working for, picked us up at the bus station in Gunsan around noon. First she took us to the school we’ll be working at to show us around a little bit. It is a very small school. There are just 4 small classrooms that fit about 12-15 students squished in. And then there are 2 teacher offices. Then she took us to our apartment that is about a 15 minute walk away. Our apartment is nicer than I thought it would be and we have most everything we need. Some things are different than I am used to but everything has been a lot easier adjustment than I was expecting. We have a great view of the city from our balcony. The shower is kind of funny because there is no stall it is just a hose that goes up from the sink and hangs on the wall. We had a couple hours to be at our apartment and so we unpacked everything. Jennifer picked us back up at three and took us back over to the school so that we could meet the students. We thought we would just be there for a little while, but we ended up being there until 9 pm, because she meant she wanted us to meet all of the classes. I have never seen Liji so dead tired. He could barely even talk by the last class. The kids thought he was shy but it was just because he was so tired.
There were 6 classes and we basically spent the entire time answering questions that the students had for us and we also asked them questions to get to know them. The school is VERY relaxed. I think what surprised me the most about everything here was how relaxed they are. I think that it must be part of their culture that time is not a big thing. The students seem to come and go from the classrooms. Whether they are arriving late or going to the restroom or leaving early. There are 20 minute breaks in between each of the classes and the students run around being crazy. It was pretty fun to watch. The boys were wrestling in the small foyer area that the school has and jumping up and down on the couches. The boys seem to playfully punch each other a lot even right during the lessons and the teachers don’t say anything. They also just talk over each other during classes. It may have just been because it was kind of an unusual day with us coming to meet them. The students were very excited to meet us. As we came in the school the first class all had their heads poked out of the classroom door giggling and waving. Each of the classes asked a lot of questions. It was a good way to practice their English. Some were not shy at all about the things they asked and some of the students were very shy to speak English. The 15 and 16 year old girls have crushes on Liji and were not shy about announcing to the whole class how tall and handsome he is. I was surprised by how quickly some of the kids latched on to Liji and I. The boys all wanted to arm wrestle Liji and even me. I beat an 11 year old, luckily. It was really close though, he was tough. They also wanted to play rock, paper scissors a lot. And one 10 year old boy just came and sat on Liji’s lap like it was completely normal. We have seen a lot of people; like mother daughter or just friends be touchy feely with each other. I think another part of their culture is just that they are very comfortable with being touchy feely. It seems as though we are going to get to know the students very well and I’m excited about that. They are all such fun and cute kids; very welcoming. The kids could not believe how big our families are. For them having 10 or 11 siblings is just unheard of. They most siblings that any of the students had was 2. The teachers have been very helpful with anything that we need. Jennifer gave both Liji and I our own cell phones. It is too expensive to make international calls on them but we have them to call people here. Jennifer is also always bring us food. They have these really good pastries here and she has already brought us bread from there 2 mornings.
So we heard that the food is spicy and that is definitely true. Everything is very spicy. Liji and I are lucky that we like spicy food and have gotten ourselves used to it by eating a lot of spicy food because the food is even very spicy for us. If it was any spicier I don’t think I could eat it. Liji can handle really spicy also and it is almost too spicy for him. There had also been a lot of sea food and I’m having a hard time adjusting to that. Even food that is not fish, tastes like fish. They serve a lot of seaweed type food. They do have a lot more American brands than I was expecting. There is a huge store practically across the street from our apartment building, where we can get pretty much anything we need.
It has been hard to do things ourselves because we can’t read Korean so we don’t know what anything is. We still can’t figure out the internet in our apartment because the setup screen is in Korean and we have no idea what is what. Our first morning here we had to take cold showers because Liji couldn’t figure out how to turn the hot water heater on because he couldn’t read anything. There is this intercom in our apartment and late last night someone just started speaking over it in Korean. We thought someone was at the door but no one was there. Then around 6 this morning someone started speaking over it again and then they did again at 8. It is kind of funny. It is a man’s voice and hopefully it is nothing important because we have no idea what they are saying.
Liji wants me to put that our handyman for the apartment is a retired mechanical engineer. He is here right now fixing our sink in the bathroom that was broken. Jennifer just came over also and helped me set up our internet. So I should be able to keep in contact now a lot better. I guess that is all for now. We start actually teaching on Monday and I’m really excited about it. I guess that is all I will write for now. We have been having a good time and this is going to be such a great experience. I really love it here. The people are so nice. We have the coast and the mountains close and a lot to do in the city. Let us know how everyone is doing at home. I hope that all is well.
We love you.
/Christina

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Yea for Best Friends


This weekend we went up from where Liji's parents live to Washington to visit one of my best friends, Rachel and her husband. I realized as I got there that it had been way too long. We just have way too much fun. We were roomates in college our first year and have been friends ever since. Husbands are the best. I love Liji to death; but there is something wonderful about girl time. I just need it. I can express myself freely and actually feel understood. It's great!

Saying Goodbye

As you can see I haven't done a very good job of keeping this updated since I started it a year ago, but since Liji and I have a huge adventure ahead of us that we would like to share with all of our friends and family I thought I would start my posts. For those of you who haven't heard; at the beginning of June we will be going to South Korea to teach English at a private elementary school there. Our contract is for a year, so if everthing goes as planned we will be gone until next June about.
We're in Oregon right now saying goodbye to Liji's side of the family. We have had a wonderful time and are going to miss everyone so much. We are also still waiting to know if we have to go to the Korean Consulate in Seatle to have an interview before we leave Oregon. Man this whole visa process has about driven me crazy. It has just been waiting on one thing and then another. I can't wait until we are on the way.