Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Liji's Awkward Moment

So I've really been meaning to post about a really awkward moment for Liji from last Friday. So we usually always head down to work at about the same time everyday. Well on Wednesday last week when we came out of the elevator there were some men workers waiting to get on the elevator. Well one of them who is probably in his 20's spotted us right away and started saying Hello and was just so excited to meet us. Well, we said hello and continued on our way to our bikes and headed to work. So a couple days pass and Friday we come out of the elevator and there is this same guys, seemingly waiting for just us to come down on our way to work. As soon as we stepped out he is just so excited. He says hello and then he puts up his hand to Liji and says, "High Five" So Liji gives him a high five but then he like grasped onto his hand for a while and like tried to give Liji this side hug, which I was almost dying laughing by the look on Liji's face when this happened. But the guy was not sattisfied with this small side hug, and I guess he felt more comfortable with Liji now that they had high fived and side huged so he said "Hug" and full on bear hugged Liji, and told him how Handsome he is. It seemed like he just wanted to hang onto him forever. Man, that made my entertainment need for the week. Koreans are very affectionate towards other people of their same gender. It is not unusual here for our male students to be sitting in my class and have their arms entertwined holding hands. But this is just their showing of friendship, not romantic sort of love. It took awhile to get used to but it's not that weird now, and this hasn't been the first time that Liji as had some stranger come up and give him a hug like this. But it still gets me everytime.

1 comment:

Heather said...

I'm so sorry Liji, but that is funny! The American elders often kept a Book of Mormon in the hand that was next to a Korean guy so the Korean guy couldn't hold it. You can't drop American masculinity too easily :).